Today’s Question –
Question of the day –
What if I have an accent. Will American girls think that is a turn off? Also I seem to get ‘AMOG’d’ when I am not speaking English like a native.”
First off, thanks so much for the question. If you watch the video you know that I have a story with all of this. I am also making this video as a shout out to my Asian friends at Asian PUA. Come on the Venusian Arts Forum and get into the conversation there!
The number one thing I would say to do is EMPOWER yourself. Stop changing yourself for what you think works, and start OWNING who you are. If someone is having trouble understanding you, say it.
“Hey guys, I don’t speak english very well, but I really wanted to talk to you. When was the last time you meet someone that you couldn’t communicate verbally with, but you ended up really connecting?”
“Oh man, I forgot I was in America, people are afraid of an accent. That’s ok I don’t bite…Where is your family from?”
“Sometimes people say they have trouble understanding me, but I thought foreign accents were, hot…in fact that is why I love American girls. To the Asian ear your voice sounds like a symphony.”
the Second piece of advice is far more important. You’re never going to get anywhere if you don’t value yourself. I know in Pick they talk a lot about ‘Social Value’. Use it if you got it…but let’s make 1 thing very clear – Once you’re isolated all you need to care about is connection. Anybody can have a connection…white girls, Asian men, and even hapa dudes like me.
So talk to more white women and know the number 1 tool you have is YOUR PIRDE!