This caller actually wanted to know about my (Jamie) personal experience as a coach and which coach (VA or otherwise) was the most pivotal for my own personal learning. She also wanted to hear the exact experience that really propelled me forward. For me it was James Matador, and learning how to be more direct with people, as I spent most of my life as ‘the nice guy.’
Too many ‘pick up artists’ were going indirect, but what I really needed was a coach who was direct and purposeful. This lead to a discussion about the mindsets that will allow you to go from being submissive to others to feeling deserving of the best and to stake your claim.