My wife has been wanting to have a baby for quite a while now. She keeps asking when weíll have our own kid. She seems really excited to be a mother but the thing is that I am not ready to be a father. Donít get me wrong, I do love her and I would really love to have a kid run around inside the house but I just am not yet ready to play the role. I am still super stressed at work especially with my current clients who are Colombian women and are very strict when it comes to details on the plan. I just canít have a baby right now. I donít know how to tell her this because I know it will hurt her feelings.