The woman of my dreams just asked me out! And Iím feeling really conflicted about it. Tbh, Iíve liked her for a while now and was trying to muster up the courage to ask her out, but then she did it first. I know I should be flattered and just grab the opportunity, but Iím kinda turned off by what she did. Are Lima women really this upfront? Honestly, Iíd prefer it if she waited for me to ask her out first, seeing as I am the man here.