The first time I went to her place was a few days ago after meeting her for the first time at an international dating social event here in her hometown. I have to admit, at first I was shocked at how she lived in a small place with unsightly conditions. The first thought that went through my head was to offer her a new place to stay but since were still new, I decided to get something she needed the most which was a new mattress. Her mattress was as thin as a pile of cardboard boxes which got me so worried for her physical health (do note that my brain might be exaggerating this part.) Ill be heading back home in a couple of days and before I leave, I was thinking of surprising her with a new mattress and a few other household commodities. What do you guys think? Is it too much? Would she feel like Im moving our newly found romance too quickly?