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TAY 191: Presenting your best self

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Today’s podcast we discussed how get your mindset ready to go out and present your best self. We also discussed the importance of using direct vs indirect openers. Also, we cover how own your environment and isolate from that. JASON: So it’s recording now. JAMIE:          All right. Awesome. Welcome everyone. I want to give […]

TAY 190: How to handle yourself on new dates

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Today’s podcast we discussed how to properly peacock. We also discussed the importance of picking the target and going for what you want. Also, we cover how own your material, yourself and how to handle your new dates. JASON: So right now. JESSIE: All right. JASON: Okay, so we’re recording, Jessie. JESSIE: Yep, how’s it […]

TAY 188: How to plan the best date with results

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Today’s podcast we discussed how best plan a date to get the best possible results and how to take advantage of your everyday situations, even if they seem bad, and construct it into an amazing DHV story. We also discussed how to handle girls with boyfriends and turn the situation to your advantage. Also, we […]

TAY 187: How to stay congruent with who you are

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Today’s podcast we discussed how to take control of your emotional state to maintain peak performance throughout the day. We also discussed how to maintain that same state in relationships to always remain congruent with who you are. Also, we go into what it would take to pursue a career in coaching. MIKE: Heroes to […]

TAY 186 : How to improve you energy without supplements

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Today’s podcast we talked how to stay energized without supplements. We also discussed strategies for networking and adding to your social circle. CASTIAN:  Excuse me. So I was basically interested in energy? Right. I was—like a lot of times I feel like I’m a little drowsy or you know, I don’t have the energy to […]

TAY 184 : How to get more courage to talk to a girl

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Today’s podcast we talked how to stay committed to a fitness program so you can accomplish goals to become a more attractive you. We also discussed how to get the courage to speak to strangers. UPGRADE:  How to get caught and stay when I’m doing something. Because whenever I had to do like say I […]

TAY 182 : How to create more energy and drive

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Today’s podcast we talked how to create more energy and drive. Our caller had been struggling with procrastination so we discussed the root cause of procrastination. We also talked about the most important financial decision you will ever make.   JAMIE:   And that could be like, maybe you’re dating somebody and you really want to […]

TAY 181 : How to reinvigorate a long term relationship

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Today’s podcast we talked how to create passive income. We also talked about how to reinvigorate a marriage or long term relationship.   JAMIE:            Is fair game. Wealth building, health, personal development, relationship management, business… anything just to supercharge your life. Energy—anything where you’re going to make, you know and make yourself get in […]

TAY 180 : How to push past limiting beliefs

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Today’s podcast we talked how to eliminate perceived barriers and limitations when it comes to approaching women. This was an incredible session that will really help you break though and get to the next level. JAMIE: Yeah, last time we talked about, I know we talked about the, I think the Thinking Grow Rich book, […]

TAY 179 : How to stack forward and avoid awkward moments

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Today’s podcast we talked about objection handlers and how to stack forward after a potentially awkward moment. We specifically talked about how to deal with shit tests such as “Are you a player?” or “I heard that line before.” Also we talked about the importance of going for an instant date whenever possible or at […]

TAY 178 : How to increase your odds of success – Let

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Today’s podcast we discussed how to internalize your stack routine and move forward through the model to make the interactions flow and increase success. We also covered limiting beliefs on beautiful women to boost your confidence while approaching and turning the script to be one being chased. JAY:   Well, you know I’ve been doing […]

TAY 176: Telling the perfect story to pickup girls

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Today’s podcast we focused primarily on DHV story writing. One of our top coaches reconstructed a clients DHV story to be significantly more engaging as well as helped him place DHV spikes in the right places. RON:  Yeah. Well, the past couple of weeks have been semi productive more so than usual. JAMIE:   All right! […]

TAY 172: Don’t wing it talking to girls

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Today’s podcast we talked about the importance of not winging it. We also role played various scenarios of an interaction from A1 to A2. Lastly we discussed the key to making your A2 routines hit. JAMIE: All right, let’s do it. Abnosa [00:00:41], you have a lot of post standard form. And that alone, I […]

TAY 171: Lets talk about this upcoming cruise!

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Today’s podcast we talked In detail about the upcoming Next Level Cruise. We also discussed how to find a balance between learning dating sciences and finding the time to apply what you have learned. Lastly we reviewed the top 3 things you can do this week to supercharge your progress. JAMIE: I know you and I had something to talk about […]

TAY 163 : How to talk to a girl you like a work

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Today’s podcast we talked about how to use pick up when dealing with co-workers. We also discussed dance floor game and inner game techniques. JAMIE: Rock and roll, man! I know you had something on the form about I think it was you have something about gaming the people at work and if you want to talk about […]

TAY 162: How to build your inner circle

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Today’s podcast we talked about inner game techniques. This included mindsets as well as pre warm-up exercises. We also discussed steps to creating or expanding your social circle. Lastly we talked about how to approach walking sets during the day. JAMIE: Hi, John. Yeah, let’s go into the details. Tell me about the one that’s kind a most pressing […]

TAY 158: How to make friends – In depth

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Today’s podcast we talked about how to use techniques in game to make friends and just be sociable in general. We also discussed the different types of needy behavior and why this is one of the biggest turn offs for women. WILLIAM: Well, I’m basically just I guess trying to take it to the next level, so that’s why […]

TAY 157: Different ways on talking to girls

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Today’s podcast we talked about the differences between direct and indirect approach. Two bootcamp alumni discuss successes and challenges following their bootcamp. Also discussed different types of inner game strategies. JASON: Question first, I’m struggling with the difference between our approach which is indirect and one of the books that you had mentioned or recommended […]

TAM 153 : How to cold read women

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Today’s podcast we talked about how to transition off of your opener using cold reads. We then discussed how to organically move the conversation to your mini DHV stories using just 3 different cold read options. A separate caller then asked for techniques on how to present yourself as the prize and asked us to […]

TAM 152 : What to do when a girl walks up to you

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Today’s podcast we talked about how to handle things when your target approaches you. Then we went through an overview of the model correcting a callers interpretation of it. Furthermore we clarified what an attraction piece is and how it is used. Also we discussed how to prevent getting friend-zoned.   JENNIFER:  Not, not that […]

TAM 150: How to talk to girls in a night club

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Today’s podcast we talked about how to open sets in a high energy night club. We also discussed the importance of not being outcome dependent and how outcome dependency can negatively affect your interactions. One important segment involved the use of qualifiers as true screening tools and not just PUA technique. Lastly, we talked about how change her mood when your […]

TAM 151 : Committed Relationships and PUA

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Today’s podcast we talked about continue your progress even if you are in a committed relationship. One of our most recent clients found himself in a situation where only 2 months after the bootcamp he found himself a great girl who he wanted to be with. So how can he maintain a monogamous relationship, yet […]

TAY 119 : Why to not wing talking to girls

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Today’s podcast we talked about the importance of not winging your opener.  We gave our caller a simple yet effect opener and overemphasized the importance of using the same opener for the next 100 sets.  Lastly we discussed how his previous opener was offering little value to the target.

TAY 115 : In-depth strategies when talking to girls

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Today’s podcast we talked about how critical it is to move your sets and offer them the same level of energy that they are looking for.  This was a very in depth session breaking down the dynamics of an interaction and how quickly you can lose the set if you do not keep things moving […]

TAY 109 : How to be funny to girls

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Today’s podcast we talked about how to spike the interaction by using humor.  We also discussed how humor spikes are sometimes necessary in comfort and later phases if the energy has dropped.  Examples from a recent interaction were given.

TAY 106 : Picking up girls versus Picking up guys

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Today’s podcast we talked about (for the benefit of our women callers) the difference between opening guys vs opening girls.  We also continued our discussion on how to deliver a sincere compliment.  Lastly and most importantly we discussed how critical it is to try and push an interaction as far as you can.

TAY 105 : How to have girls remember you

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Today’s podcast we talked how to make yourself memorable and give your target the feeling as if you two could talk forever. Also for the benefit of our women callers, we talked about the difference between opening guys vs opening girls.  Lastly we discussed the proper way to deliver a sincere compliment.

TAY 101: How to set financial goals

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This caller had a question that took a little bit of a detour from our usual pick up discussions.  Our caller was trying to set financial goals.  Since Venusian Arts is a personal development company we discussed some strategies for building wealth and managing stocks.

TAY 96 : What to do on your first date

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In this episode the caller offered to meet up with his target for coffee.  How is the best way to do this?  In general your best bet is to push the interaction as far as you can, in this call we explore how to do this.  We also discussed the philosophy of being more direct […]

TAY 95 : How to get a second date

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Our caller had a situation where he opened and moved the target, keeping her engaged for awhile.  But the next day when he texted her she was unresponsive.  What went wrong?  We discussed effective ways of setting up a day 2.

TAY 78 : Step by Step how to talk to a girl

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In today’s show, we talked about our first routine stack edition.  Listen as one of our coaches helps a client refine his routine stack.  Our coaches take into account the venue, situation, but most importantly making sure the words are congruent with the character.

TAY 65: Case study on Day Game Pickup

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In today’s podcast,Our caller wanted a break down of his day game approach and how he could have done it better.  The target was a hired gun.  Discussed was the differences when its an a venue that you frequent. Lastly discussed was the importance of having a photo routine, especially when traveling and can’t speak […]

TAY 64 : What is the 3 second rule and how to use it

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In today’s podcast,This call was focused on the 3 second rule.  Do you need it?  Do you not need it?  A play by play pick up was discussed.  Lastly we discussed how all of our coaches are essentially guided you toward your most authentic yet  powerful self by fine tuning the character you present to […]

TAY 63 : How to pick girls up during the daytime

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In today’s podcast, we Discussed how to get more success at day game, and some of the key differences between day and night.  There are some key differentiators and ways and incredible ROI when really fine tuning your day game.  Often times people are not in as much of a rush as you think.  They […]

TAY 62 :Going out with a wingman and strategies

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In today’s podcast, we talked about about the importance of having a wing not just in the field, but also when it comes to sharing ideas and keeping the momentum going.  Also discussed inner game and how to not let the ego sabotage you.  Talked about the importance of surrounding yourself with people who will […]

TAY 57: How to not come off as a player to women

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In today’s podcast, we continued our discussion on pre-selection triggers.  For example, can you overdo this pre-selection trigger making her think you are a player?  An easy way to prevent over doing the pre-selection attraction trigger it is with the protector of loved ones attraction trigger.  Letting her know you protect those in your social […]

TAY 56: What are women attracted to? We break it down

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We discussed the biggest attraction triggers for women.  Furthermore we discussed how to create the biggest attraction trigger, pre-selection. We continued our discussion on pre-selection.  Not just with words but lock in props.  You can use these to bait her into re-engaging you later or as an excuse to re-engage her yourself later.

TAY 47: How to create a real, better conversations with girls

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In today’s podcast, we discussed how to utilize structures for your opener to facilitate a real organic conversation.  We also touched on how the routine stack facilitates a real organic conversation by having these structures preplanned in advance. Lastly, the caller was not holding himself to a minimum number of opening per week and was […]

TAY 42 : How to keep a fuck buddy

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In this call, we discussed how to keep a fuck buddy.  The most important lesson from this call is that everyone is always being evaluated based on their perceived value.  If your fuck buddy is a beautiful woman, well she clearly has other options available to her.  To keep her around long term, requires showing […]

TAY 39 : Making a powerful first impression with girls

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In this podcast, we reflected on an interaction and the power of making yourself memorable via qualification questions, DHV stories, and other rapport building techniques.  She also realized that she was finding excuses to why she was not achieving her goal for weekly number of sets / interactions.  We discussed some techniques on how to better […]

TAY 35: Why do I start good, and then lose the girl after time

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 Today’s podcast, the caller opened strong but lost momentum. Discussion on stacking forward, dealing with interrupts, escalating, and micro calibration. Micro calibration helps you know what needs to be done in any scenario. There are two types of IODs, verbal and non verbal. When she is not really buying into your story or not really […]

TAY 33: Better ways to approach girls and removing anxiety

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Today’s podcast is more on opening and dealing with approach anxiety. The caller had been dealing with approach anxiety for a long time. To work on approach anxiety make your openers more funny and random. Some examples are given as well as some unique types of newbie drills that will totally crush your fear of speaking […]

TAY 31: How to talk to girls in the club and beyond

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Direct vs Indirect opening. Day game structure vs night game structure. How to recognize the reality that she is simply playing a character and the bitch shield is simply part of the character that she is playing. Once they get into the club, the girls shields go on. So discussed the best tactical approach to […]

TAY 21:How to reinvigorate a conversation with a girl

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Discussed the most important IOI. Hints, its not playing with her hair or touching you. It’s something a lot more basic. Also went into depth on A2 and the importance of buying temperature and locking in. Buying temperature is not just used in A2, it can also be used to reinvigorate the conversation. Went further […]

TAY 20: Give her what she wants

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Discussed how to really understanding your audience and giving the audience (aka your target) what she wants. Understand she is just there to have fun and enjoy herself, not have a philosophical conversation. Also talked how pick up parallels classic sales techniques.

TAY 13: Be in a constant state of learning

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Discussed the value of not trying to self diagnose sticking points and how to constantly be in a state of learning. Also discussed how to elicit a reaction from your set and getting them to actively participate in the interaction. How to lead and keep a conversation going. Also discussed the importance of adding an […]

TAM 1: The Attractive Man Podcast

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The Start of The Attractive Man Podcast, where we help men become masters of the world. We go in-depth on advice with women, including getting more sex, talking better, learning how to charm women, and being attractive to women not just physically, but emotionally. Join us on this journey! JAMIE:            So, on that note […]