Today’s podcast we discussed push pull in depth and how it is used in your interactions and how to not use it via text.
Today’s podcast we discussed push pull in depth and how it is used in your interactions and how to not use it via text.
Today’s podcast we discussed how to go about dating people at work. We also discussed how to go about meeting women at raves and other places where many of the patrons are in altered states.
Today’s podcast we discussed everything from manifesting threesomes to creating attraction in the workplace. We also discussed how to maintain presence while in the midst of an interaction.
Today’s podcast we discussed how to re-engage an ex-girlfriend. AARON: Yes, so I’ve got this girl that I’ve been dating I didn’t hear about 10 years ago and we hit it off really strong. Things were going really well and I met her at a Christmas party in Florida and we stay in touch […]
Today’s podcast we discussed how to go for the gusto when you have a limited time window. Specifically discussed scenarios where you know your time to win over your target is a minute or less. DANIEL: I’m so—I guess sometimes there seems to be some target. There are, I guess tough to get to just […]
Today’s podcast we talked about inner game and next level strategies. JAMIE: All right, man. Record button on! Tell me what the latest and greatest is? What’s the experience from like the last week or two that we can discuss? JOHN: I went to the mall the other day and there was this girl […]
Garbriel: Date from school, talking about guy to not talking to, jealousy plotline, handle tests, Upgraid: qualifying hired guns, qualify/push, disqualify, Frank: dealing with open relationships JASON: All right, what’s up guys? So, Upgrade—I mean, Gabriel, yeah, how was your week? GABRIEL: Yeah! It was good, so I went out with this girl a […]
Today’s podcast was incredible! We did a special where we took client stories and improved them live on the call with DHV and humor spikes. You won’t want to miss this episode! DANIEL: I texted you some additional information on that as well. JAMIE: Yeah. We’ll talk about that. I am recording by the […]
Today’s podcast was incredible! We did a special where we took client stories and improved them live on the call with DHV and humor spikes. You won’t want to miss this episode! DANIEL: I texted you some additional information on that as well. JAMIE: Yeah. We’ll talk about that. I am recording by the way […]
Today’s podcast we talked about how to overcome flakes. This included how to make sure the date is solid as well as ways to test her to see how committed she is to the date. JAMIE: All right, action! Daniel, let’s start with you, man. So how are things progressing? DANIEL: I think things are […]
Today’s podcast we talked with another recent bootcamp participant. Our caller is regularly hooking sets but has a few sticking points and unsure how to deal with select tests.
Today’s podcast was another episode helping a client transform their real life stories into the kind of story that will engage women. JAMIE: All right, so I’m recording now. So, Danny, sounds like you had an interesting evening last night? Tell us about what happened and then for everyone at home we’re going […]
Today’s podcast we spoke with a bootcamp participant he completed his training 3 weeks ago. We discussed the progression and current challenges. Also discussed was how and when to give IOIs and IODs after the initial approach.
Today’s podcast we talked about having the right mantras and active meditation can greatly improve your mindset and ultimately your results. A big part of today’s call was dissecting a callers approach anxiety issues.
Today’s podcast we talked how to get yourself primed for a great night of interactions. The coaches shared a few stories and insights, then took questions from the callers. JAMIE: Okay, everyone. Tonight, so get this: I want to have a call on, because it’s Friday night, right? You know, Friday nights, before a […]
Today’s podcast we had a bootcamp alumni from 2 years ago share his experiences and progression. We also answered questions about the best ways to go for an instant date. JAMIE: Okay, I’m recording as of right now. FRANK: Ok, perfect. JAMIE: So just when you were listening here, we’re having a little bit […]
Today’s podcast we talked what typically happens at a bootcamp including recent student experiences and challenges for male and female students. JAMIE: Okay, we’re recording. So, Jason, you know, why don’t we do things a little bit differently today, man? I want to get an idea what it would be like as a potential […]
Today’s podcast we talked how to use pick up techniques to make regular friends. We also discussed how to handle long distance relationships. UPGRADE: Well, I have someone over here on Wednesday. Somebody I met when I left after the boot camp. We’ve been—I wouldn’t say dating because we don’t meet that often. JAMIE: Okay. […]
Today’s podcast we discussed how to neg and show interest. We also discussed approach anxiety and how to do warm up routines to get ready to be in state when you are out. JASON: Richard? RICHARD: Hello, everyone. This is Richard Lou from Florida. JASON: How are you doing, Richard? RICHARD: I’m doing great. Nice […]
Today’s podcast we discussed how get your mindset ready to go out and present your best self. We also discussed the importance of using direct vs indirect openers. Also, we cover how own your environment and isolate from that. JASON: So it’s recording now. JAMIE: All right. Awesome. Welcome everyone. I want to give […]
Today’s podcast we discussed how to properly peacock. We also discussed the importance of picking the target and going for what you want. Also, we cover how own your material, yourself and how to handle your new dates. JASON: So right now. JESSIE: All right. JASON: Okay, so we’re recording, Jessie. JESSIE: Yep, how’s it […]
Today’s podcast we discussed differentiate between being outcome independent and blowing everything off by saying “I don’t care” and moving on. We also cover the basic steps on where to start and how to start thinking on the solution instead of the problem.
Today’s podcast we discussed how best plan a date to get the best possible results and how to take advantage of your everyday situations, even if they seem bad, and construct it into an amazing DHV story. We also discussed how to handle girls with boyfriends and turn the situation to your advantage. Also, we […]
Today’s podcast we discussed how to take control of your emotional state to maintain peak performance throughout the day. We also discussed how to maintain that same state in relationships to always remain congruent with who you are. Also, we go into what it would take to pursue a career in coaching. MIKE: Heroes to […]
Today’s podcast we talked how to stay energized without supplements. We also discussed strategies for networking and adding to your social circle.
Today’s podcast we talked how to stay energized without supplements. We also discussed strategies for networking and adding to your social circle. CASTIAN: Excuse me. So I was basically interested in energy? Right. I was—like a lot of times I feel like I’m a little drowsy or you know, I don’t have the energy to […]
Today’s podcast we talked how to stay committed to a fitness program so you can accomplish goals to become a more attractive you. We also discussed how to get the courage to speak to strangers. UPGRADE: How to get caught and stay when I’m doing something. Because whenever I had to do like say I […]
Today’s podcast we discussed how to build off the momentum from a good date without self-sabotaging. We also reviewed how to keep your frame when you are being challenged by a woman or she is trying to label you. Also, we discussed the proper time to use longer DVH stories. RON: Made it before […]
Today’s podcast we talked how to create more energy and drive. Our caller had been struggling with procrastination so we discussed the root cause of procrastination. We also talked about the most important financial decision you will ever make. JAMIE: And that could be like, maybe you’re dating somebody and you really want to […]
Today’s podcast we talked how to create passive income. We also talked about how to reinvigorate a marriage or long term relationship. JAMIE: Is fair game. Wealth building, health, personal development, relationship management, business… anything just to supercharge your life. Energy—anything where you’re going to make, you know and make yourself get in […]
Today’s podcast we talked how to eliminate perceived barriers and limitations when it comes to approaching women. This was an incredible session that will really help you break though and get to the next level. JAMIE: Yeah, last time we talked about, I know we talked about the, I think the Thinking Grow Rich book, […]
Today’s podcast we talked about objection handlers and how to stack forward after a potentially awkward moment. We specifically talked about how to deal with shit tests such as “Are you a player?” or “I heard that line before.” Also we talked about the importance of going for an instant date whenever possible or at […]
Today’s podcast we discussed how to internalize your stack routine and move forward through the model to make the interactions flow and increase success. We also covered limiting beliefs on beautiful women to boost your confidence while approaching and turning the script to be one being chased. JAY: Well, you know I’ve been doing […]
Today’s podcast we discussed tools to increase your chances of success with moving targets. We also cover how to handle your emotions and perform while talking to a beautiful woman, how to calibrate to create the sexual tension, and how to personalize routines to be more congruent in your interactions. JAY: This short question so […]
Today’s podcast we focused primarily on DHV story writing. One of our top coaches reconstructed a clients DHV story to be significantly more engaging as well as helped him place DHV spikes in the right places. RON: Yeah. Well, the past couple of weeks have been semi productive more so than usual. JAMIE: All right! […]
Today’s podcast was primarily a sticking point session where we reviewed numerous scenarios.
Today’s podcast we talked how to reinvigorate a conversation if it starts to stale out. We also discussed how to run your routine stack if introduced to your target. (rather than a cold approach). JAMIE: All right. So, Zayn, let’s start with you here. Sounds like you have some good updates. Let’s hear about it. […]
Today’s podcast we talked about the importance of knowing what you want and how to ask for it. We also discussed how to get clear on the type of relationship you desire and deserve. Lastly we discussed how to know when a relationship is not working.
Today’s podcast we talked about the importance of not winging it. We also role played various scenarios of an interaction from A1 to A2. Lastly we discussed the key to making your A2 routines hit. JAMIE: All right, let’s do it. Abnosa [00:00:41], you have a lot of post standard form. And that alone, I […]
Today’s podcast we talked In detail about the upcoming Next Level Cruise. We also discussed how to find a balance between learning dating sciences and finding the time to apply what you have learned. Lastly we reviewed the top 3 things you can do this week to supercharge your progress. JAMIE: I know you and I had something to talk about […]
Today’s podcast we talked about strategies to move your target to the seduction location. We also discussed techniques for building comfort. Lastly we talked about how to know your target is interested and is ready for your first qualification question.
Today’s podcast we talked about when to go direct vs indirect. We also discussed how to use routines that fit your character. CALLER: Oh, I was doing some direct stuff during the day and I went in, you know, some of those were just like awkward, some of laughing, and one of my men actually talked to […]
Today’s podcast we talked about how to get into state. We discussed some additional ways to feel the fear and do it anyways. Lastly we gave our caller some routine stack material for opening.
Today’s podcast we talked about how escalate verbally and physically. We also discussed how to use objection handlers appropriately. Lastly we talked about how to use these techniques in networking events.
Today’s podcast we discussed A2 in depth and how to use buying temperature routines. We also discussed how to deal with the alpha female of the group.
Today’s podcast we talked about how to deal with shit tests and be non-reactive. Also we discussed to reinvigorate the conversation after a lull or awkward moment. Lastly we discussed how to make the concept of frame control practical.
Today’s podcast we talked about goal setting and warm up exercises to get yourself in state. We also discussed what makes the willingness to walk so attractive to women using The Bachelor analogy.
Today’s podcast we talked about how to use pick up when dealing with co-workers. We also discussed dance floor game and inner game techniques. JAMIE: Rock and roll, man! I know you had something on the form about I think it was you have something about gaming the people at work and if you want to talk about […]
Today’s podcast we talked about inner game techniques. This included mindsets as well as pre warm-up exercises. We also discussed steps to creating or expanding your social circle. Lastly we talked about how to approach walking sets during the day. JAMIE: Hi, John. Yeah, let’s go into the details. Tell me about the one that’s kind a most pressing […]
Today’s podcast we talked what it is like to experience a Venusian Arts program. We also discussed when to do when your target is not responding to kino escalation. Lastly we discussed some key strategies for day game.
Today’s podcast we talked about how to get back out there if you lose momentum. We also discussed some good sources for canned material. Lastly we discussed some AMOG techniques. UPGRADE: I kind of lost momentum with the, it’s not like haven’t had time it’s just, I don’t know, it kind of died for me so I started back […]
Today’s podcast we talked about the three most destructive behaviors that will ruin your sets. We also discussed the importance of pre planning your potential bounce locations. Lastly we had a fantastic discussion on emotional fitness.
Today’s podcast we talked about how to use techniques in game to make friends and just be sociable in general. We also discussed the different types of needy behavior and why this is one of the biggest turn offs for women. WILLIAM: Well, I’m basically just I guess trying to take it to the next level, so that’s why […]
Today’s podcast we talked about the differences between direct and indirect approach. Two bootcamp alumni discuss successes and challenges following their bootcamp. Also discussed different types of inner game strategies. JASON: Question first, I’m struggling with the difference between our approach which is indirect and one of the books that you had mentioned or recommended […]
hToday’s podcast we talked about what to do when your target is involved in a relationship. We also discussed why it is important to not judge others or yourself. Other topics included were text game and the benefits of calling rather than texting. Lastly we discussed goal setting.
Today’s podcast we talked about kino escalation routines and what makes a great DHV story.
Today’s podcast we talked about how gauge your success not just in pick up but in life.
Today’s podcast we talked about how to be unreactive. We also discussed how frame control ties into this concept.
Today’s podcast we talked about how to kino escalate and discussed how to deliver the hug test. Lastly we discussed how to set expections for yourself as you start to embark on this journey.
Today’s podcast we talked about how to prepare for a first date. We also discussed what to do when going out solo.
Today’s podcast we talked about how to really employ a true ‘willingness to walk’ vs making excuses.
Today’s podcast we talked about goal setting, not just in pick up but in life. We discussed how to set daily goals as well as long term ones and how to use that to supercharge your progress in life.
Today’s podcast we talked about how the best ways to open single sets, and the best cold reads for when your target is by herself. We also dissected a few openers used by clients as well as discussed the best way to invite a girl for coffee.
Today’s podcast we talked about how to transition off of your opener using cold reads. We then discussed how to organically move the conversation to your mini DHV stories using just 3 different cold read options. A separate caller then asked for techniques on how to present yourself as the prize and asked us to […]
Today’s podcast we talked about how to handle things when your target approaches you. Then we went through an overview of the model correcting a callers interpretation of it. Furthermore we clarified what an attraction piece is and how it is used. Also we discussed how to prevent getting friend-zoned. JENNIFER: Not, not that […]
Today’s podcast we talked about how to relax your emotions when you see a very attractive woman. We discussed several activities to control your emotional state.
Today’s podcast we talked about how to deal with flakey behavior. We also discussed how pick up is an active form of personal development.
Today’s podcast we talked about how to open sets in a high energy night club. We also discussed the importance of not being outcome dependent and how outcome dependency can negatively affect your interactions. One important segment involved the use of qualifiers as true screening tools and not just PUA technique. Lastly, we talked about how change her mood when your […]
Today’s podcast we talked about continue your progress even if you are in a committed relationship. One of our most recent clients found himself in a situation where only 2 months after the bootcamp he found himself a great girl who he wanted to be with. So how can he maintain a monogamous relationship, yet […]
Today’s podcast we talked about how to re-engage an old friend who sends you a Facebook friendship request. We discussed how to arrange a first meeting.
Today’s podcast we talked about how to not get friend zoned. We discussed ways to keep the conversation charged and moving towards your intended outcome.
Today’s podcast we talked about the difference between being a leader of men and frame control. We also talked about how to isolate your target.
Today’s podcast we talked about how critical it is to work with your coach in person and how learning proper delivery can only be achieved in this manner.
Today’s podcast we talked about goal setting and how to prepare yourself before an in person bootcamp.
Today’s podcast we covered the personal development topic of how to overcome fear and anxiety. Lastly we discussed how to become less outcome dependant.
Today’s podcast we discussed how to know if you have successfully hooked a set. We also talked about the importance of attraction pieces.
Today’s podcast we talked about how buying temperature routines if executed properly will open windows of opportunity to escalate. What of the simplest yet most critical elements of your game is recognizing and executing when a window opens.
Today’s podcast we talked about committing to one opener for the next 100 sets and why its so critical for mastering delivery. We also discussed how doing this also will greatly reduce approach anxiety as a benefit to simplifying your opener. Lastly we discussed the practices of the worlds’ greatest speakers and how you can […]
Today’s podcast we talked about the importance of not winging your opener. We gave our caller a simple yet effect opener and overemphasized the importance of using the same opener for the next 100 sets. Lastly we discussed how his previous opener was offering little value to the target.
Today’s podcast we talked about how to fine tune your game and identify little mistakes or omissions in your approach. Lastly we discussed how you can get good very quickly if you are really practicing the same routines over and over versus winging it.
Today’s podcast we talked about how to take your game to the next level and how to properly model the techniques in our videos. We also discussed the importance of simplicity and not overcomplicating aspects such as opening.
Today’s podcast we talked about the importance of leading a group, especially when in a high energy environment. We also talked about knowing your audience and giving them what they are looking for.
Today’s podcast we talked about how critical it is to move your sets and offer them the same level of energy that they are looking for. This was a very in depth session breaking down the dynamics of an interaction and how quickly you can lose the set if you do not keep things moving […]
Today’s podcast we talked about how to make yourself memorable. Also how to solidify a meeting with your target when she lives far away.
Today’s podcast we talked about how to make it clear which girl is your target. An in depth example was discussed. Lastly we discussed how to set up a day two and keep her engaged via text message.
Today’s podcast we talked about the importance of picking your target and how to isolate your target.
Today’s podcast we talked about how to give IODs just using your body language. We also gave our caller some sources for stacking after the opener.
Today’s podcast we talked about how to keep the comfort phase fun. Gave examples of how to embed kino and attraction spikes within comfort. Lastly we discussed how to give IODs just using your body language
Today’s podcast we talked about how to spike the interaction by using humor. We also discussed how humor spikes are sometimes necessary in comfort and later phases if the energy has dropped. Examples from a recent interaction were given.
Today’s podcast we talked about the mindset of ‘going for the lay not the practice’ and how critical it is to really push yourself with the ‘assume the business mindset.’
Today’s podcast we talked about how when it comes to interactions to always remember that the emotional state of your target is an important factor to consider. We also discussed techniques for establishing rapport and comfort quickly.
Today’s podcast we talked about (for the benefit of our women callers) the difference between opening guys vs opening girls. We also continued our discussion on how to deliver a sincere compliment. Lastly and most importantly we discussed how critical it is to try and push an interaction as far as you can.
Today’s podcast we talked how to make yourself memorable and give your target the feeling as if you two could talk forever. Also for the benefit of our women callers, we talked about the difference between opening guys vs opening girls. Lastly we discussed the proper way to deliver a sincere compliment.
Today’s podcast we talked how to manage the expectations of the women in your life. Also how to keep enough space so that it doesn’t become a relationship when all you are looking for is a casual situation.
Today’s podcast we talked about how to keep your progress going as your social calendar starts filling up. We also talked about how to not be ‘the nice guy’.
This caller had a situation where an amog tried to interrupt. What is the best way to handle it? The caller tried to use a soundbite to handle the situation, but the soundbite was miscalibrated.
This caller had a question that took a little bit of a detour from our usual pick up discussions. Our caller was trying to set financial goals. Since Venusian Arts is a personal development company we discussed some strategies for building wealth and managing stocks.
Our caller has a pretty busy life and has felt overwhelmed lately. In this call we discussed how he can make the most of his time each day to get his practice in.
We talked about deliver and how to fine tune your routine stack to 1 or 2 default routines for each phase. You don’t want to be a master opener, you want to be a master pick up artist.
This call was focused on day game and difference in strategies you’d employed in day game vs night game. We discussed the difference in openers as well as follow through.
Our caller found himself being the nice guy too often. Rather than take advantage of opportunities he was making excuses. Does this sound familiar? In this call we discuss how to be more direct and clear about what you want when engaging your target. Also in this call we discussed what to do if the […]
In this episode the caller offered to meet up with his target for coffee. How is the best way to do this? In general your best bet is to push the interaction as far as you can, in this call we explore how to do this. We also discussed the philosophy of being more direct […]
Our caller had a situation where he opened and moved the target, keeping her engaged for awhile. But the next day when he texted her she was unresponsive. What went wrong? We discussed effective ways of setting up a day 2.
This call vered from the typical pick up conversation. Some of our callers took advantage of the fact Venusian Arts also offers personal development beyond pick up. We discussed some good ways to unwind after a day of pick up including suggestions for how to meditate.
In today’s show, we first we broke down an interaction where it appeared the target was using soundbites of their own. Is it possible that the target was also engaging in a personal development program of their own and exploring new ways of communicating?
In this episode we discuss the only two qualification questions that you need to use. We also discuss the psychology of why we choose these 2. Lastly we discuss what to do after qualification.
How do you know if your DHV story worked or whether you need to redo it? In this episode we discuss how to know if your routine stack and DHV stories needs to be refined. Lastly we discuss how to know if you have attracted her via your DHV stories.
In this call we go in depth on microcalibration. This is a very critical component to knowing what to do and when.
After you mini DHV stories where do you go? In day game we go right to qualification, in this episode we discuss how. We also discuss neg warefare philosophy in depth.
In this episode we continue to break down what makes for a good DHV story and how to hit all the attraction triggers.
In this episode we tweak another clients story so it hits. This time we focus on the protector of loved ones attraction trigger.
In today’s show, we talked about how we actually tweak a clients story to so it hits. Our coach actually rewrite the story live so that it hits the attraction triggers.
In today’s show, we talked about how to write your DHV stories. This is one of the most challenging aspects of pick up. First quick summary of everything leading up to your first mini DHV stories.
In this call we cover bridging from your cold read to your story. This is the next segment in the routine stack edition.
In today’s show, we talked about body language. Specifically how you communicate how long you are going to be there by using your body.
In today’s show, we talked about our of the routine stack edition, we then move to how to transitioning. How to transition in a way that makes sense without sucking value and asking questions.
In today’s show, we talked about our we discussed the importance of picking just one opener to practice 100 times. If you have too many openers it will delay your progress towards becoming a master social artist.
In today’s show, we talked about our of our special routine stack edition. It this session we conclude the opening phase. We also touched on how our coaches personalize based on the individual.
In today’s show, we talked about how to keep your openers simple. Do not be a master opener. Here are 3 bullet proof openers to use. We continue our special routine stack edition.
In today’s show, we talked about our first routine stack edition. Listen as one of our coaches helps a client refine his routine stack. Our coaches take into account the venue, situation, but most importantly making sure the words are congruent with the character.
In today’s podcast,Went further discussing life applications of frame control and how it is so important to be aware that in every conversation there is a seller and a buyer.
In today’s podcast, we gave an analytic breakdown of how frame control starts with your beliefs and then is backed up with your various soundbites and routines.
In today’s podcast, it was more discussion on frame control and not allow her to deviate you from your game plan.
In today’s podcast, This call was focused on frame control. We broke it down the methodology to make it less confusing for the caller. How to have the strongest conversational frame, and keep it.
In today’s podcast, Illustrated the importance of using routines and soundbites that fit your character and how to find them. Gave some great routines to control the frame that she clearly came out to be sociable and to stop pretending otherwise.
In today’s podcast,we discussed how society conditions you to be a gentleman and how being direct undos that social conditioning allowing you to ask for what you want and be who you want to be. Two in depth scenarios of where men need to push out of the limits imposed by society and assume the […]
In today’s podcast, it was a Continuation on ultra direct game. Discussed how to find tune your routines and soundbites so they reflect who you really are allowing you to present your most powerful authentic self. Lastly discussed the power of differentiating yourself and ‘creating serendipity.’
In this podcast, We discussed how ultra direct game really helps you to be yourself and skip the bullshit. Essentially ultra direct helps you be ultra you. Also discussed were applications in sales in general. Light discussion on frame control and a few unique direct openers were given during the call.
In today’s podcast, we Discussed how to employ ultra direct day game in the day game. Example given from open to close.
In today’s podcast, The caller wanted to find out what to do if he got a phone number yet knows he was not able to get attraction prior to the close. The real problem was he was focusing on ‘what now’ rather than making sure he builds attraction next time. The caller was missing some […]
In today’s podcast,we discussed day game direct approach and how to escalate beyond the small talk bullshit. Lastly we discussed how the most well-known pick up artists are wired differently because they wired themselves different. Also how coaches redirect you to the methods that really fit your character.
In today’s podcast,Our caller wanted a break down of his day game approach and how he could have done it better. The target was a hired gun. Discussed was the differences when its an a venue that you frequent. Lastly discussed was the importance of having a photo routine, especially when traveling and can’t speak […]
In today’s podcast,This call was focused on the 3 second rule. Do you need it? Do you not need it? A play by play pick up was discussed. Lastly we discussed how all of our coaches are essentially guided you toward your most authentic yet powerful self by fine tuning the character you present to […]
In today’s podcast, we Discussed how to get more success at day game, and some of the key differences between day and night. There are some key differentiators and ways and incredible ROI when really fine tuning your day game. Often times people are not in as much of a rush as you think. They […]
In today’s podcast, we talked about about the importance of having a wing not just in the field, but also when it comes to sharing ideas and keeping the momentum going. Also discussed inner game and how to not let the ego sabotage you. Talked about the importance of surrounding yourself with people who will […]
In today’s podcast,it was about creating a roadmap to success. It is not a quick journey, and its good to know what time of hurdles one might come across along the way. To learn pick up requires mental fortitude as this is not an easy still to learn. On the call we had a former student […]
In today’s podcast, the caller was given a better way to do the get information phase. Rather than ask questions, it was reiterated the importance of making statements. The difference between giving value via questions vs giving value via statements was revisited.
In today’s podcast, we discussed the differences in opening a 1 set vs a 2, 3, 4 or even bigger group. One of the main differences is just a slight modification in the opener from ‘hey’ to ‘hey guys’.
In today’s podcast,we went into more of the technicals of a routine stack on opening and transitioning off the opener. For the specific caller it was recommended that he only open direct and stop with the indirect approach. After he opens direct about why he is there, he then can transition to an indirect opinion […]
In today’s podcast, we continued our discussion on pre-selection triggers. For example, can you overdo this pre-selection trigger making her think you are a player? An easy way to prevent over doing the pre-selection attraction trigger it is with the protector of loved ones attraction trigger. Letting her know you protect those in your social […]
We discussed the biggest attraction triggers for women. Furthermore we discussed how to create the biggest attraction trigger, pre-selection. We continued our discussion on pre-selection. Not just with words but lock in props. You can use these to bait her into re-engaging you later or as an excuse to re-engage her yourself later.
In today’s podcast, we talked about how most guys when they see the girl is not reacting, or when they see the girl is not really into your story they react with something like ‘you seem bored.’ Your job is not to comment on how bored they look. It is to finish your fucking story. […]
In today’s podcast, we showed the participant how to create their own DHV stories. There is indeed a formula to captivating and audience and hitting the attraction triggers that make you memorable. Not only did we discuss how to do this conceptually, but we actually created a DHV story live on the call from scratch. […]
In today’s podcast, this call we discussed how to transition off the opener. This is one of the only times you can ask a question. This question should transition into your first mini DHV story.
In this podcast, we discussed how to transition off the opener. The problem today is most guys go into some boring situational type of opener and then from there go into interview question mode. For example being at Starbucks and opening with “Oh I get the same mocha. Whats your name? Where you from? Do you […]
In today’s podcast, wecall we discuss the modern day perspective on how to apply the false time constrain. Game evolves and keeps growing. We discussed more advanced understanding of when the false time constraint is effective and when it is redundant. When you are at a club or bar, and you know you will be […]
In today’s podcast, the caller was allowing his target to control the frame and maintain dominance. We discussed some techniques to retake control the frame as well as some kiss close techniques and handle rejection in a playful manner.
In today’s podcast, the caller really wanted to know the best way to create his own DHV stories. He was give the first steps in creating his own.
In today’s podcast, we discussed how to utilize structures for your opener to facilitate a real organic conversation. We also touched on how the routine stack facilitates a real organic conversation by having these structures preplanned in advance. Lastly, the caller was not holding himself to a minimum number of opening per week and was […]
In today’s podcast, it was a continuation of podcast 45. Here we discuss how to stack forward after delivering a neg into a mini DHV story. Also covered is how to transition and ground your story so it sounds natural and not forced conversation.
In this podcast, John was still struggling with how and when to use negs. We also discussed the importance of not being reaction seeking and how to deliver negs playfully.
This caller actually wanted to know about my (Jamie) personal experience as a coach and which coach (VA or otherwise) was the most pivotal for my own personal learning. She also wanted to hear the exact experience that really propelled me forward. For me it was James Matador, and learning how to be more direct […]
In this episode, our guests asks for his openers to be more natural and organic. We discussed the advantage to using a structure such as the Style genuine interest opener and how it facilitates a genuine conversation.
In this call, we discussed how to keep a fuck buddy. The most important lesson from this call is that everyone is always being evaluated based on their perceived value. If your fuck buddy is a beautiful woman, well she clearly has other options available to her. To keep her around long term, requires showing […]
In this episode, the caller was unsure of how to handle a girl who was shit testing him and asking him to buy her and her friend lunch. Buying ‘a round’ can be a very socialble thing to do, but it is very important to distinguish between buying a round for the sake of being […]
In this podcast, we reflected on an interaction and the power of making yourself memorable via qualification questions, DHV stories, and other rapport building techniques. She also realized that she was finding excuses to why she was not achieving her goal for weekly number of sets / interactions. We discussed some techniques on how to better […]
This caller has a situation where he thought he was applying the concepts properly yet in reality he was just being a normal dude with no game. We discussed the importance of knowing your target and making it apparent to everyone (not just you). Also an introduction on frame control. If they get you to […]
Today’s podcast we discussed how to get out of your head and in state. Some warm up practices were discussed in detail. Even discussed some very alternative warm up techniques such as making primitive noises and other weird noises that some of the top motivational speakers use. Also it’s a great technique to always be […]
Today’s podcast the caller found himself losing the set by asking too many questions. We addressed the value in making statements rather than asking too many questions. Anytime you ask a question, its like a homeless person asking “Do you have $10 I can borrow.” You are much more likely to get her to answer […]
Today’s podcast, the caller opened strong but lost momentum. Discussion on stacking forward, dealing with interrupts, escalating, and micro calibration. Micro calibration helps you know what needs to be done in any scenario. There are two types of IODs, verbal and non verbal. When she is not really buying into your story or not really […]
Today’s podcast is more on opening and dealing with approach anxiety. The caller had been dealing with approach anxiety for a long time. To work on approach anxiety make your openers more funny and random. Some examples are given as well as some unique types of newbie drills that will totally crush your fear of speaking […]
In this podcast episode, we talk about how to internalize your game. The best pick up artists internalize it (his gay wing man isn’t pretending) and try to make it as real as they can. When girls don’t know what your agenda is, they will get weird and distance themselves.When a girl can see your […]
Direct vs Indirect opening. Day game structure vs night game structure. How to recognize the reality that she is simply playing a character and the bitch shield is simply part of the character that she is playing. Once they get into the club, the girls shields go on. So discussed the best tactical approach to […]
Pick up is a momentum game. When opening in a high energy environment, it is critical to have a fun & playful opener to use in this type of environment. The more complicated the opener – the more approach anxiety you will get. The easier you can keep the opener playful and fun, the easier […]
In this podcast, we talk about what to do when a girls facial expressions throw you off. Talked about Resting bitch face and how two deal with it.
In today’s podcast we talked about if you should eject from the set with your wing if your not attracted to the girl your talking to. If you and your wing approach a set and one of you is not attracted to one of the girls, what to do?
In this podcast, it is about managing multiple women. How to approach multiple relationships.
In this podcast episode we talked about not texting or calling unless you have something to offer the girl. What is an offering? How to offer it. Limitations of using the phone
Second call was about if a girl is talking about boring stuff that you don’t want to talk about. How to make the vibe less boring even though she is talking about boring things. Switching the direction of the conversation.
First Call we talked about when your wing should isolate or let you isolate. How to gracefully eject from a set to continue gaming the venue, without burning the bridge. How to stay engaged with a girl you met earlier in the night over time while you continue to game the venue.
THow to use the cube. Should you rely on games like The Cube to build comfort or are there better methods? What are the best methods for creating rapport quickly? How to ensure she sees you as intriguing and not an entertainer or even worse a clown. Lastly discussed how to navigate from phase to […]
UWomen want a leader. Most important is you sound sure of yourself especially when asking for kino compliance. Also discussed the purpose of qualification and DHV story telling.
Discussed the most important IOI. Hints, its not playing with her hair or touching you. It’s something a lot more basic. Also went into depth on A2 and the importance of buying temperature and locking in. Buying temperature is not just used in A2, it can also be used to reinvigorate the conversation. Went further […]
Discussed how to really understanding your audience and giving the audience (aka your target) what she wants. Understand she is just there to have fun and enjoy herself, not have a philosophical conversation. Also talked how pick up parallels classic sales techniques.
In this podcast, it is about escalation and the right mindset to have while escalating in a sex location.
In this podcast, we talk about when life gets in the way of your game. Things happen in life and you stop gaming or game gets worst when things in your life go downhill and how to handle this
In this podcast was about if you don’t have your stack down how would you approach a set anyways
Discussed goal setting and how many sets you should aim for on a daily/weekly/monthly basis. Also spoke about the power of consistency and having a mentor.
In this podcast episode,we gave several examples of how and when to use objection handlers as well as techniques for disarming the target. Also continued discussion importance of adding intentional pauses in the opener.
Discussed the value of not trying to self diagnose sticking points and how to constantly be in a state of learning. Also discussed how to elicit a reaction from your set and getting them to actively participate in the interaction. How to lead and keep a conversation going. Also discussed the importance of adding an […]
Discussed how to open a 5 set, and how to handle objections bordering on rude. How to properly use soundbites to disarm. How to handle objections and stack forward and keeping the interactions playful when dealing with a difficult set.
Calling was constantly losing his place when stacking forward and getting lost in his interactions. Also is not going through routine stack as he practiced. Thinks he needs more material but the reality he needs less. Also discussed how to escalate kino and rolling off when using kino escalation routines. Going from work mode to […]
How to get in a good state for day game, asking for a phone number vs offering a meet up location. Also discussed a breathing exercise to reduce approach anxiety and a continued discussion on how to do the newbie challenge.
In this one we discussed how to deal with a situation that is not going well, using A2 buying temperature to reinvigorate the interaction especially when her energy is low.
Discussed the importance of a routine stack and how it is used to keep the conversation moving towards a very specific outcome. How to not get overwhelmed with routines and stacking. Also discussed how to open at coffee shops.
Discussed the newbie challenge, the importance of smiling, the importance of saying hi, and the value of the 3 second rule. The revelations that you will experience from doing this very simple exercise are incredible.
First call discussed how to isolate your target when in a two set, how to make your intentions known, and statement of intent.
Today on the podcast we had Caller one who found himself relying on too many A2 buying temperature routines. He was not aware that using too many buying temperature routines back to back can make you look like an entertainer at best, and a clown at worst. He needed to realize that buying temperature serves […]
Topic one, first caller had a good initial reaction off his opener. Got all the way to the bounce…but then a male interrupt / intruder from the original group asked to tag along to the bounce location. How do you handle that? Caller two opened with “What makes you special?” The target was not responsive […]
In this episode we go deeper into detail with how the attractive man reacts, deals, and handles when a women rejects him. Everyone gets rejected at some point another, but everyone deals with it differently.
In this episode, we go into how to handle doubts and resistance women put off in the early stages of an interaction. This resistance is normal, as they don’t know you well yet. That’s where The Attractive Man comes in.
The Start of The Attractive Man Podcast, where we help men become masters of the world. We go in-depth on advice with women, including getting more sex, talking better, learning how to charm women, and being attractive to women not just physically, but emotionally. Join us on this journey! JAMIE: So, on that note […]