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How to Avoid Problems with Casual Sex

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A short while ago I posted a link to an article from Cosmo on the forum called 24 Problems Only Women Who Have Casual Sex Understand because it offers a great insight into some of the problems that sexually adventurous women encounter. As PUAs, it’s our job to circumvent these problems and avoid as many as possible, whenever possible, in order to make it easy for women to feel comfortable both before and after sleeping with us.

How to Create a Time Bridge With Example

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The time bridge is a very important part of setting up a day 2. When defined it means to set up a planned date. It gives the woman an opportunity to see you again and do something different instead if going for dinner and a movie which to most women is boring. Women are adventurous […]

MATURED MALE

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Information for men over 40+. Learn to modernize your approach to life. Wealth Building Techniques Life Path Kits Social Value Offerings Much More…. [catlist name=PUA]

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PUA Training

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So You Want to Be A Pick-up Artist? Well you’ve made a good choice. I’m not going to lie to you, it wont be easy and it won’t happen overnight. But if you decide that you really, TRULY want to change your life (complete with the kinds of women you’ve always dreamed about) and push […]

TAY 191: Presenting your best self

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Today’s podcast we discussed how get your mindset ready to go out and present your best self. We also discussed the importance of using direct vs indirect openers. Also, we cover how own your environment and isolate from that. JASON: So it’s recording now. JAMIE:          All right. Awesome. Welcome everyone. I want to give […]

TAY 190: How to handle yourself on new dates

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Today’s podcast we discussed how to properly peacock. We also discussed the importance of picking the target and going for what you want. Also, we cover how own your material, yourself and how to handle your new dates. JASON: So right now. JESSIE: All right. JASON: Okay, so we’re recording, Jessie. JESSIE: Yep, how’s it […]

TAY 188: How to plan the best date with results

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Today’s podcast we discussed how best plan a date to get the best possible results and how to take advantage of your everyday situations, even if they seem bad, and construct it into an amazing DHV story. We also discussed how to handle girls with boyfriends and turn the situation to your advantage. Also, we […]

TAY 187: How to stay congruent with who you are

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Today’s podcast we discussed how to take control of your emotional state to maintain peak performance throughout the day. We also discussed how to maintain that same state in relationships to always remain congruent with who you are. Also, we go into what it would take to pursue a career in coaching. MIKE: Heroes to […]

TAY 186 : How to improve you energy without supplements

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Today’s podcast we talked how to stay energized without supplements. We also discussed strategies for networking and adding to your social circle. CASTIAN:  Excuse me. So I was basically interested in energy? Right. I was—like a lot of times I feel like I’m a little drowsy or you know, I don’t have the energy to […]

TAY 184 : How to get more courage to talk to a girl

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Today’s podcast we talked how to stay committed to a fitness program so you can accomplish goals to become a more attractive you. We also discussed how to get the courage to speak to strangers. UPGRADE:  How to get caught and stay when I’m doing something. Because whenever I had to do like say I […]

TAY 182 : How to create more energy and drive

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Today’s podcast we talked how to create more energy and drive. Our caller had been struggling with procrastination so we discussed the root cause of procrastination. We also talked about the most important financial decision you will ever make.   JAMIE:   And that could be like, maybe you’re dating somebody and you really want to […]

TAY 181 : How to reinvigorate a long term relationship

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Today’s podcast we talked how to create passive income. We also talked about how to reinvigorate a marriage or long term relationship.   JAMIE:            Is fair game. Wealth building, health, personal development, relationship management, business… anything just to supercharge your life. Energy—anything where you’re going to make, you know and make yourself get in […]

TAY 180 : How to push past limiting beliefs

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Today’s podcast we talked how to eliminate perceived barriers and limitations when it comes to approaching women. This was an incredible session that will really help you break though and get to the next level. JAMIE: Yeah, last time we talked about, I know we talked about the, I think the Thinking Grow Rich book, […]

TAY 179 : How to stack forward and avoid awkward moments

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Today’s podcast we talked about objection handlers and how to stack forward after a potentially awkward moment. We specifically talked about how to deal with shit tests such as “Are you a player?” or “I heard that line before.” Also we talked about the importance of going for an instant date whenever possible or at […]

TAY 178 : How to increase your odds of success – Let

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Today’s podcast we discussed how to internalize your stack routine and move forward through the model to make the interactions flow and increase success. We also covered limiting beliefs on beautiful women to boost your confidence while approaching and turning the script to be one being chased. JAY:   Well, you know I’ve been doing […]

TAY 176: Telling the perfect story to pickup girls

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Today’s podcast we focused primarily on DHV story writing. One of our top coaches reconstructed a clients DHV story to be significantly more engaging as well as helped him place DHV spikes in the right places. RON:  Yeah. Well, the past couple of weeks have been semi productive more so than usual. JAMIE:   All right! […]

TAY 172: Don’t wing it talking to girls

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Today’s podcast we talked about the importance of not winging it. We also role played various scenarios of an interaction from A1 to A2. Lastly we discussed the key to making your A2 routines hit. JAMIE: All right, let’s do it. Abnosa [00:00:41], you have a lot of post standard form. And that alone, I […]

TAY 171: Lets talk about this upcoming cruise!

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Today’s podcast we talked In detail about the upcoming Next Level Cruise. We also discussed how to find a balance between learning dating sciences and finding the time to apply what you have learned. Lastly we reviewed the top 3 things you can do this week to supercharge your progress. JAMIE: I know you and I had something to talk about […]

TAY 163 : How to talk to a girl you like a work

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Today’s podcast we talked about how to use pick up when dealing with co-workers. We also discussed dance floor game and inner game techniques. JAMIE: Rock and roll, man! I know you had something on the form about I think it was you have something about gaming the people at work and if you want to talk about […]

TAY 162: How to build your inner circle

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Today’s podcast we talked about inner game techniques. This included mindsets as well as pre warm-up exercises. We also discussed steps to creating or expanding your social circle. Lastly we talked about how to approach walking sets during the day. JAMIE: Hi, John. Yeah, let’s go into the details. Tell me about the one that’s kind a most pressing […]

TAY 158: How to make friends – In depth

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Today’s podcast we talked about how to use techniques in game to make friends and just be sociable in general. We also discussed the different types of needy behavior and why this is one of the biggest turn offs for women. WILLIAM: Well, I’m basically just I guess trying to take it to the next level, so that’s why […]

TAY 157: Different ways on talking to girls

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Today’s podcast we talked about the differences between direct and indirect approach. Two bootcamp alumni discuss successes and challenges following their bootcamp. Also discussed different types of inner game strategies. JASON: Question first, I’m struggling with the difference between our approach which is indirect and one of the books that you had mentioned or recommended […]

TAM 153 : How to cold read women

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Today’s podcast we talked about how to transition off of your opener using cold reads. We then discussed how to organically move the conversation to your mini DHV stories using just 3 different cold read options. A separate caller then asked for techniques on how to present yourself as the prize and asked us to […]

TAM 152 : What to do when a girl walks up to you

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Today’s podcast we talked about how to handle things when your target approaches you. Then we went through an overview of the model correcting a callers interpretation of it. Furthermore we clarified what an attraction piece is and how it is used. Also we discussed how to prevent getting friend-zoned.   JENNIFER:  Not, not that […]

TAM 150: How to talk to girls in a night club

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Today’s podcast we talked about how to open sets in a high energy night club. We also discussed the importance of not being outcome dependent and how outcome dependency can negatively affect your interactions. One important segment involved the use of qualifiers as true screening tools and not just PUA technique. Lastly, we talked about how change her mood when your […]

TAM 151 : Committed Relationships and PUA

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Today’s podcast we talked about continue your progress even if you are in a committed relationship. One of our most recent clients found himself in a situation where only 2 months after the bootcamp he found himself a great girl who he wanted to be with. So how can he maintain a monogamous relationship, yet […]

TAY 119 : Why to not wing talking to girls

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Today’s podcast we talked about the importance of not winging your opener.  We gave our caller a simple yet effect opener and overemphasized the importance of using the same opener for the next 100 sets.  Lastly we discussed how his previous opener was offering little value to the target.

TAY 115 : In-depth strategies when talking to girls

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Today’s podcast we talked about how critical it is to move your sets and offer them the same level of energy that they are looking for.  This was a very in depth session breaking down the dynamics of an interaction and how quickly you can lose the set if you do not keep things moving […]

TAY 109 : How to be funny to girls

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Today’s podcast we talked about how to spike the interaction by using humor.  We also discussed how humor spikes are sometimes necessary in comfort and later phases if the energy has dropped.  Examples from a recent interaction were given.

TAY 106 : Picking up girls versus Picking up guys

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Today’s podcast we talked about (for the benefit of our women callers) the difference between opening guys vs opening girls.  We also continued our discussion on how to deliver a sincere compliment.  Lastly and most importantly we discussed how critical it is to try and push an interaction as far as you can.

TAY 105 : How to have girls remember you

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Today’s podcast we talked how to make yourself memorable and give your target the feeling as if you two could talk forever. Also for the benefit of our women callers, we talked about the difference between opening guys vs opening girls.  Lastly we discussed the proper way to deliver a sincere compliment.

TAY 101: How to set financial goals

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This caller had a question that took a little bit of a detour from our usual pick up discussions.  Our caller was trying to set financial goals.  Since Venusian Arts is a personal development company we discussed some strategies for building wealth and managing stocks.

TAY 96 : What to do on your first date

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In this episode the caller offered to meet up with his target for coffee.  How is the best way to do this?  In general your best bet is to push the interaction as far as you can, in this call we explore how to do this.  We also discussed the philosophy of being more direct […]

TAY 95 : How to get a second date

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Our caller had a situation where he opened and moved the target, keeping her engaged for awhile.  But the next day when he texted her she was unresponsive.  What went wrong?  We discussed effective ways of setting up a day 2.

TAY 78 : Step by Step how to talk to a girl

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In today’s show, we talked about our first routine stack edition.  Listen as one of our coaches helps a client refine his routine stack.  Our coaches take into account the venue, situation, but most importantly making sure the words are congruent with the character.

TAY 65: Case study on Day Game Pickup

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In today’s podcast,Our caller wanted a break down of his day game approach and how he could have done it better.  The target was a hired gun.  Discussed was the differences when its an a venue that you frequent. Lastly discussed was the importance of having a photo routine, especially when traveling and can’t speak […]

TAY 64 : What is the 3 second rule and how to use it

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In today’s podcast,This call was focused on the 3 second rule.  Do you need it?  Do you not need it?  A play by play pick up was discussed.  Lastly we discussed how all of our coaches are essentially guided you toward your most authentic yet  powerful self by fine tuning the character you present to […]

TAY 63 : How to pick girls up during the daytime

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In today’s podcast, we Discussed how to get more success at day game, and some of the key differences between day and night.  There are some key differentiators and ways and incredible ROI when really fine tuning your day game.  Often times people are not in as much of a rush as you think.  They […]

TAY 62 :Going out with a wingman and strategies

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In today’s podcast, we talked about about the importance of having a wing not just in the field, but also when it comes to sharing ideas and keeping the momentum going.  Also discussed inner game and how to not let the ego sabotage you.  Talked about the importance of surrounding yourself with people who will […]

TAY 57: How to not come off as a player to women

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In today’s podcast, we continued our discussion on pre-selection triggers.  For example, can you overdo this pre-selection trigger making her think you are a player?  An easy way to prevent over doing the pre-selection attraction trigger it is with the protector of loved ones attraction trigger.  Letting her know you protect those in your social […]

TAY 56: What are women attracted to? We break it down

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We discussed the biggest attraction triggers for women.  Furthermore we discussed how to create the biggest attraction trigger, pre-selection. We continued our discussion on pre-selection.  Not just with words but lock in props.  You can use these to bait her into re-engaging you later or as an excuse to re-engage her yourself later.

TAY 47: How to create a real, better conversations with girls

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In today’s podcast, we discussed how to utilize structures for your opener to facilitate a real organic conversation.  We also touched on how the routine stack facilitates a real organic conversation by having these structures preplanned in advance. Lastly, the caller was not holding himself to a minimum number of opening per week and was […]

TAY 42 : How to keep a fuck buddy

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In this call, we discussed how to keep a fuck buddy.  The most important lesson from this call is that everyone is always being evaluated based on their perceived value.  If your fuck buddy is a beautiful woman, well she clearly has other options available to her.  To keep her around long term, requires showing […]

TAY 39 : Making a powerful first impression with girls

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In this podcast, we reflected on an interaction and the power of making yourself memorable via qualification questions, DHV stories, and other rapport building techniques.  She also realized that she was finding excuses to why she was not achieving her goal for weekly number of sets / interactions.  We discussed some techniques on how to better […]

TAY 35: Why do I start good, and then lose the girl after time

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 Today’s podcast, the caller opened strong but lost momentum. Discussion on stacking forward, dealing with interrupts, escalating, and micro calibration. Micro calibration helps you know what needs to be done in any scenario. There are two types of IODs, verbal and non verbal. When she is not really buying into your story or not really […]

TAY 33: Better ways to approach girls and removing anxiety

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Today’s podcast is more on opening and dealing with approach anxiety. The caller had been dealing with approach anxiety for a long time. To work on approach anxiety make your openers more funny and random. Some examples are given as well as some unique types of newbie drills that will totally crush your fear of speaking […]

TAY 31: How to talk to girls in the club and beyond

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Direct vs Indirect opening. Day game structure vs night game structure. How to recognize the reality that she is simply playing a character and the bitch shield is simply part of the character that she is playing. Once they get into the club, the girls shields go on. So discussed the best tactical approach to […]

TAY 21:How to reinvigorate a conversation with a girl

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Discussed the most important IOI. Hints, its not playing with her hair or touching you. It’s something a lot more basic. Also went into depth on A2 and the importance of buying temperature and locking in. Buying temperature is not just used in A2, it can also be used to reinvigorate the conversation. Went further […]

TAY 20: Give her what she wants

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Discussed how to really understanding your audience and giving the audience (aka your target) what she wants. Understand she is just there to have fun and enjoy herself, not have a philosophical conversation. Also talked how pick up parallels classic sales techniques.

TAY 13: Be in a constant state of learning

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Discussed the value of not trying to self diagnose sticking points and how to constantly be in a state of learning. Also discussed how to elicit a reaction from your set and getting them to actively participate in the interaction. How to lead and keep a conversation going. Also discussed the importance of adding an […]

TAM 1: The Attractive Man Podcast

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The Start of The Attractive Man Podcast, where we help men become masters of the world. We go in-depth on advice with women, including getting more sex, talking better, learning how to charm women, and being attractive to women not just physically, but emotionally. Join us on this journey! JAMIE:            So, on that note […]

Ep. #15 – The 3 Second Rule – Beckster – Venusian Arts

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This week Beckster answers forum user Plushlife’s questions about the 3-second rule, or as Beckster likes to call it ‘The No Second Rule’. Opening sets without hesitation Beating approach anxiety Not giving your brain time to come up with excuses Switching between indirect openers and direct openers Keeping your brain active so you can become […]

Five More Mistakes Men Make On Tinder

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Following up on my last article about 5 mistakes men make on Tinder, I came up with another 5 common mistakes that men (PUAs included) tend to make when trying to figure out how to meet someone from Tinder. Taking it too seriously A very large percentage of women will tell you that they only […]

How to Build Comfort With Women

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How do you build comfort with women? In this video, Beckster goes into detail on how to build comfort with girls, including: Building comfort with prospective girls Manging women Building attraction Open at a slightly higher energy level Environments play a big role on your energy level

Don’t hesitate, Escalate!

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How did I mess up? I asked a girl out, got her number and set up details via text. I used kino, talking to her, touching her hair, etc, she was receptive and complimented me. The night finally comes and she wants to meet at her place instead of mine. We get some icecream…But it […]

How to become more sociable

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How Do I become more sociable? – An indepth video and overview by Beckster. Go for the people you really want Cold approaching is a good gift to learn! Train yourself to cold approach Act like you own the bar Capture/Recapture techniques The more you bump into someone, the more your neighbors Why you should […]

How to get hotter girls – Whats wrong with fking Perfect 10s?

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This Pick Up Industry sends an unclear message about  male development. Meeting women, having sex and learning to sexually escalate are good things.  But the greatest thing in masculinity is the experience, sense of manhood, integrity and living what you value.  This comes from sex, relationships and life experience.  The key is we need to move […]

What should I say on Tinder? – 5 Common Mistakes

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Love it or hate it, Tinder has become a worldwide phenomenon. A lot of my students have asked me whether or not I’ve tried Tinder and what I thought about it, so I check it out myself. After a lot of experimentation and asking everyone I know as well as every match I actually talked […]

Homeless guy picks up 3-4 women up a week

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Note: This is not an instructable. This is to motivate you and inspire you to open girls. If this guy can do it, you definitely can do it. This guy picks up women up, 3-4 nights a week, even while being homeless. His philosophy is waking up with money, getting for-lokos, waking up on the side […]

STD’s, Sex, and Shame – Part 2

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Last week I posted a video that was about STD’s Sex & Shame and I got this reply. “Hey man, how’re you doin? I love checkin out your videos from time to time to see what you’re up to, but i gotta call you out on that last one. You said literally nothing to address […]

How do I prepare for a Boot Camp

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Today’s Question comes from Gustavo. Gustavo test marketed an upcoming Venusian Arts Product (working title) “The Empowered Man” – Look for it when it comes out. Gustavo says, “I really like your approach based on authenticity. I was reading a lot about mystery method, and will probably go to a VA bootcamp in october or […]

Should men wear make up?

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Video summary: Should men wear make up? Men’s worries about wearing make up How much makeup should men wear How to improve your appearance Mens doubts about makeup Conceiver, toning for pimples, etc. Peacocking Eyeliner and men

What do I do if I have a thick accent?

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Today’s Question –  Question of the day – What if I have an accent. Will American girls think that is a turn off? Also I seem to get ‘AMOG’d’ when I am not speaking English like a native.” Advice – First off, thanks so much for the question. If you watch the video you know […]

How to respond to girls – Beckster

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Beckster answers YOUR questions! This one was sent in by forum member Nijnij and in it he covers compliance, qualifying, negging, authority and rapport. Keep sending in your questions guys, we’ll be happy to answer them! How to respond to girls questions Being cocky funny and get you out of tough situations How to indirectly […]

Don’t overthink PUA – Steve

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Read the forum post: I was reading/studying in last 10 days A3 stuff and the result: I LOSTED, PLEASE HELPIn Mystery’s book “TMM how to get…”There is “Screening” , “the hotseat game”, “Compliance”- if i good understood this thing is for KINO testing, ”Qualifiers”, SOI-statements of interests, ”Compliments” and of course Bait-hook-reel-Relese.In A3 I know […]

Pick Up – Kino Techniques – Beckster

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Beckster shares some insights into how to kino (touch) a girl during an interaction without being creepy. Beckster is a London, UK based lifestyle coach with over 16 years in the game, 10 of which have been spent coaching others to become more successful in their lives. Beckster is available for 1 on 1 coaching, […]

Rejection Part 2 – How A Venusian Artist Handles Rejection

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This is part two of a three-part series on dealing with rejection that was inspired by the #notJustHello debate on Twitter. If you haven’t read part one, be sure to check it out here. I’ve seen a lot of interesting and downright frustrating comments about the #NotJustHello debate from regular guys and from pick-up artists. […]

Handling Rejection Part 1 – The #NotJustHello Debate

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This is part one of a three part series on dealing with rejection that was inspired by the #notJustHello debate on Twitter a short while back. I’ve been following the discussions around #notJustHello for the last few weeks and I’m kind of horrified by some of the comments I’ve seen on there. I’m normally not […]

When to Call After A Number Close

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So, you have gotten her number and now when do you call? I have found in my experience in The Game that calling a girl really depends on how much comfort was involved in the set. Let’s say I number closed a girl on Thursday. Depending on how the set went I would generally close […]

Do You Have The Spider Sense?

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Do you ever get the spider sense? That feeling where you just KNOW a nearby set wants to be opened? Don’t worry, you will. When I first got into the game I relied on my wings to point out sets behind me. This is the best way to work with a wingman, because it allows […]

OS 5 SEGREDOS DA COMUNICACAO NAO-VERBAL

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OS 5 SEGREDOS DA COMUNICAÇÃO NÃO-VERBAL A comunicação é uma das mais importantes ferramentas humanas, pois nos permite estabelecer relacionamentos e manter interações sociais. Entretanto, ao contrário do que supõe o senso comum, a comunicação não é composta apenas pela fala. Na realidade estudos científicos comprovaram que 93% do impacto de uma mensagem comunicada é […]

VA Phone Game App for iOS Update Now Available

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I’ve been having so much fun down here in Australia that totally forgot to post that the latest update to our VA Phone Game app is now available for iOS. This version features a whole slew of new text gambits for pumping buying temperature with a quick laugh, feeling out if she’s free to chat, […]

How to pick the right PUA coach

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Are you ready to pull the trigger and get REAL training? Great! Well obviously there is a right way to go about it, and a wrong way to go about it. First consideration…. – Make sure your coach has a proven ability to demonstrate and coach. It’s not enough that your coach can demo an […]

Treinamento PUA Brasil

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A jornada para se tornar um PUA faz com que você se transforme em um indivíduo mais interessante. E isso vai muito além de suas relações com mulheres. Este caminho pode melhorar todos os aspectos da sua vida: vai te ajudar a fazer amigos, contatos de negócios e, é claro, ter uma vida sexual invejável. […]

Daygame

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YOU. Staring at the screen. With the dry dick. Approach that pretty girl who just walked past! If there really aren’t any, you need to find places where they are. Girly places, yoga, universities, dance classes, shopping malls, night clubs. Wherever there is lots of money, that is where fertile sexy young women roam. Get […]

Don’t Spend Valentines Day Alone

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As it has the tendency to do every year, Valentines day is fast approaching. This can be a trying time for singles, both men and women. Seeing those people in relationships get all lovey-dovey and talk about the extravagant gifts and surprises they are planning for their partners can sometimes be a bitter reminder of […]

Meeting Women After a Divorce

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. You said those two little words once before and found yourself burned in the end. “I Do” may seem like such a miniscule affirmation, but for many it is the determination between endless happiness and a long moment of broken heartedness.

Approaching Women

Approaching Women

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For many men, approaching a woman is the most intimidating part of the meet and greet. While there’s always a fear of rejection, you must look past these potential hazards to see what you could be missing out on. There’s no magic line or special technique that will make a woman fall for you, but […]

Going Out Alone AND Getting Laid

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Wingman 1 – Out of town Wingman 2 – With gf Wingman 3 – No reply Wingman 4 – Late-work shift Classic, I thought. It’s Friday night and no one’s coming out. Very tempted to stay in. But I say, Fuck it, after 3+ years in the game – learning, practicing & upgrading; this is […]

Maintaining A Healthy Social Circle

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A lot of PUAs get lost in the game. Many become so obsessed with sarging every weekend, or just with trying to open sets in general that they completely forget their old social circle. Others find that their friends give them a hard time when they try to explain pickup or get their buddies to […]

AMOG Battle

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So I was talking with this 2-set on a late Friday night at a venue and the bouncer came in and shooed us away from the patio as they were closing. My target in that set was the taller chick. I had gamed the taller chick quite thoroughly with good kino, TV spin test, Qualifying […]

Mystery and Matador Invading Europe

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Hey there, You’ve probably noticed that Venusian Arts has been keeping quiet for the last little while.  That’s because there’s been some big changes lately, including a brand new website, exciting new training programs, and a whole bunch of new products in the works! If you haven’t checked out our snazzy new website be sure […]

Being A Man

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Part of being an alpha male means dealing with shit yourself. It means having things handled. You can pump your own gas, you check your own oil, and you put air in your own tires. That’s not to say that you can’t pay someone to do those things for you, but if push came to […]

How to Bypass A Line And Network

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There are a lot of things that can kill your state, but one of the worst ones is waiting in line to get into a club. You’re standing there… waiting… trying not to let your AA get the best of you… your mind can start filling you with limiting beliefs and fears of failure. It […]

Toronto Lair Meet May 19th!

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Toronto! The next Pickup Artist Lair meeting hosted by Derail and myself is on SUNDAY MAY 19 at 5pm at The Elephant n Castle 212 King St W. in the back room. $10 per person (only because people have stiffed us on food and drinks at previous meetings). See you there!!! Prophet

Canned Material vs “Winging It”

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Here’s a little post I put on the forum a couple of years ago but totally forgot to put up as a full article. Enjoy! It still surprises me that I see so many people talking about whether or not to used canned material and routine stacks, so after an experiment last night I thought […]

The Host With the Most

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As you get better and better at your game you are more likely to be pulling girls or even small groups of people back to your place. When this happens you need to maintain your game but at the same time take the role of a good host and I’m finding that a lot of […]

FR: Day Game At Music Festival

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It was a 3-day festival that Prophet, Stavros, and I were looking forward to all year. We agreed the night before that we will see our favorite bands and sarge this concert festival. I was experimenting with direct game for this festival. I found with direct game there are 3 main points to get down. […]

The Alpha

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Have you ever felt beta, insignificant, not deserving, easily removable from a set? For you my brothers, I bring you the ‘Alpha’. Follow these pointers to help you become one:

Mystery Soundbite:

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“All I do is spit truth and point it out before you slip on it.” ~ Mystery “Todo lo que hago es expresar la verdad, incluso antes de que me creas.” (Thank you Mauricio for the Spanish translation.) .

Overcoming Fear Of Rejection

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Fear of public ridicule at the hands of beautiful women is surprisingly common. Many, MANY men – myself included back in the day – share this potentially crippling fear. Few people are brave enough to come right out and say it though, so if you’re reading this you’re at least moving in the right direction […]

FR: Stripper Game F-Close

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It was Saturday night and all my wingmen were busy with FBs. And Prophet was in Vegas. I had no wingmen tonight. I figured id lone sarge But then my phone rings. It’s my brother. Brother: Derail, a friend and I are going to the strippers. You gotta come. Derail: Done, on my way. My […]

Is Toronto REALLY The Worst City For Men?

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So an article called 15 Reasons Why Toronto Is the Worst City In North America For Men by RooshV showed up on my Facebook on Monday. I’ve never meet RooshV, although I’ve had heard a lot about him from various people who have read his books, but to me the whole article just reads like […]

St Patricks Day Tips for PUAs

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Happy St. Patty’s day everyone! St Patrick’s Day is one of THE BEST nights of the year for sarging. And when it falls on a weekend, you can bet the whole weekend will be filled with green-tinted madness. I personally cannot wait for the adventures to get started. If you don’t have any plans to […]

Penetrating My Glass Ceiling With Discovery

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I had been in Las Vegas for about a month at the time and was there to work. I would be living and working with a guy, helping him through his main sticking points. Discovery was on his way over too to conduct the Venusian Arts Coach development program. I had been to my first 360 Coach Program some time before but knew the benefit of reinforced learning so would be attending as an alumni. It was normal that me and Discovery would meet and then have a night out so I knew we were going to go out but I didn’t realize my game would be taken to the next level and that it would be one of the most important nights for my game.

Phone Game – The Problem With Mass Texting Girls

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Mass-messaging people isn’t actually a very effective way of getting a lot of people out for the night, to a party, or any other social gathering. Although it may have seemed to be efficient to have people grouped into distribution lists for easy sending, or even just sending the exact same message to a dozen or so people, I found that it would drastically reduce the chances of even getting a reply – let alone getting a whole bunch of people to show up!

Q: What was it like living with Courtney Love Mystery man?

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A: Ass-grabbin’ funtastic. Press play to see never-before-seen footage (literally!) from The Game inside Project Hollywood with Courtney Love, Katya, Mystery, and even Style (super-famous Neil Strauss). Song = Celebrity Skin by Hole. (Killer music video.) What’s with the get-ups? Katya and I are über-dolled up for the Rolling Stone photo shoot. Herbal T (Tynan) also wrote an interesting related account of living with Courtney […]

Handling Rejection Like A Pro

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How good are you at selling? If you still get AA or find that in certain situations the fear gets the better of you then read on … You’re about to rapidly leave that behind in the dust … by applying a concept that is familiar to top sales people.

The Date – Time Bridges and Day-2s

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A question I hear a lot from students is “Where do I take all these girls for a Day-2 once I close them?” This is usually followed up with “I don’t have a lot of money” and “There isn’t really much to do in my city.” But believe it or not, there are probably HUNDREDS of fun and interesting things for you to take your girl to right in your city – many of which are free or extremely cheap! All you have to do is be a little creative and your entire town or city can become your dating playground.

Getting Out Of The House

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Getting out every night is getting you closer to becoming a really good PUA and it’s very important to practice out in the real world no matter what. Day by day, what you do is who you become. Because having all the knowledge in the world and not taking constant action will make you unsuccessful at getting good, to having a fun filled day or night.

VA iPhone 5 App 5 Support!

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Venusian Arts Phone Game Companion version 1.3 is now available for download through iTunes! This update features cool new enhancements, including new fields on the Profile tab: Nickname, Date We Met, Where We Met, Stage of the Game (A1-S3), and Shared Interests. Now you can quickly and easily store and reference more details to help you keep track of everyone you meet!

Halloween Is Fast Approaching!

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Halloween is my favorite time of year. My roommates and I decorate the hell out of the place, watch classic horror movies almost all month, shamble around the city as undead corpses for the Toronto Zombie Walk and, check out the various indy horror movie events around the city. So here are some tips to help you make the most of the spookiest time of the year!

Luck

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Luck is a mind-set that anyone can achieve. All it takes is one lucky opportunity in life and you can shift from a job promotion or a career change in your life to finding your perfect love partner. It has the power to transform both our personal and professional lives by playing a significant part in many aspects of our life.

Q: Can you really fuck … with people’s minds?

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A: Well, I consider myself an intuitive person … Press play and see Mystery in his early 20′s perform a fun ‘experiment of the mind’ in Toronto (old archive footage). Interactions with a lot a people reveal interesting repeatable patterns. The most interesting pattern of them all is this: human beings are ridiculously intelligent. I’m talking […]

Texting and How to Avoid Phone Game Traps

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Ever since my last article on How to Get A Girl’s Number and the release of the VA Phone Game app, a lot of people have been asking me about texting girls – especially when you can’t get them on the phone. If you’ve read the rest of my articles on Phone Game, you’ll know that I, like many of the masters I’ve learned from, believe that a phone call is far more effective for building comfort and setting up the date than a text message conversation.

VA Phone Game iPhone App Update Now Available

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The latest version of the Venusian Arts Phone Game Companion is now available for download through iTunes! We’ve fixed a few bugs and optimized a few things behind the scenes, and due to numerous requests I’ve added some articles on when it’s appropriate and to your advantage to text a girl over calling her. We also added some KILLER new text pebbles in the form of in-app purchases. Each pack comes with at least 10 new but extensively tested text message gambits to send to girls to spike buying temperature, test to see if she’s free for a phone call, or just to keep her thinking of you.

How to Get A Girl’s Number

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So you’ve met a gorgeous, interesting woman. You’ve chatted for a while, you’ve shared some laughs, and you’ve gotten to know each other a bit. Now it’s time to get her phone number and ideally set up a date (otherwise known as a “Day-2” in the Pick-up community).

How to DHV Your Wing

FR: Wingmanship and Closed-off Body Language

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I thought I’d write this one up because it was practically by the numbers and shows the progression through the M3 model kinda nicely . We also see how important it is to calibrate and adjust on the fly as you find out more and more about the personality of everyone in the set.

Kino, Part Three: How To Kino

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All humans, men and women, yearn for touch. Look at babies. They THRIVE on physical contact. This yearning doesn’t stop when we grow up. We still need touch as adults. Touch is love.

When we become adults we create these “stranger” boundaries. But it’s false. We all share in the same humanity. And have the same needs of human-to-human contact. Kino breaks the “stranger” barriers.

Kino, Part Two: What is Kino?

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This is Part 2 of my series on kino escalation.  Check out part 1 here. PART TWO: What Is Kino? So what exactly is kino? And, again, how can a PUA kino a woman when we first meet her without creeping her out? Here’s the key. Don’t be sexual at first. I repeat don’t be […]

Q: When’s your next PUA bootcamp, Mystery?

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Next up: Helsinki PUA bootcamp with Mystery & Beckster April 28 & 29, 2012. I’m looking for my next star protege this year in Europe. Come hear me speak about “Modern Cold Approach Pickup” LIVE at my next PUA bootcamp. “What? We’re not going for phone numbers anymore?” Not any more. How do you like THEM apples? […]

Q: What’s the “girls are evil” gambit?

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A: Memorize this for in-field use … best in C1 or C2: Performance: Carry a notepad and pen to show this in your next group set. Performance of it is everything. The result should be laughter, not slaps. Well, not hard slaps. Write out the proof step by step. Don’t have it simply already written. […]

Happiness

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A lot of time we can confuse happiness with pleasure but happiness is not pleasure and although they can appear similar they are very different.

Day-2s and Setting the Frame

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I love doing stuff all over the city. Whether it’s looking at really tall ships, participating in a massive pillow fight, exploring a wine tasting festival, or smoking a J at a hippie drum circle, I’m pretty much excited to do anything that involves a new experience.

Pointers on Effective Wingmanship

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I have had the pleasure of being in the company of some great wings who have, on more than one occasion, helped me get the girl. The following points are highly recommended and have all been applied by myself and my wings.

Jealousy

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This emotion in our body is very powerful and it can affect us in nearly every decision that we make when feel it in our body.

Comfort – Building Commonalities and Connection

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You need to be able to build commonalities based on things that are important to your target. You need to share at least some interests, desires, fears, and passions. You don’t have to have EVERYTHING in common (in fact, it will be too much to believe if you do), but you need to discover several items that are important to both of you.

Body Language In A Bar

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Body langage is a really important aspect of social dynamics. You can have a lot of fun with your sets just by observing other people’s body langange inside the venue and talking about what you’re seeing.

Does Weight Make A Difference?

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To some degree most people are insecure about their appearance. Even the best looking people I know want to change the way they look. Whether they think their too fat, short, thin or whatever, there will be an internal dialog saying “if this was different I would be more attractive to women”.

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How To DHV Your Wing

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Having someone to DHV you is an incredibly powerful tool that is OFTEN overlooked PUAs. In this article Prophet shows you how you can introduce your wingman and how he can DHV you to your set.

You Are The Brand

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I constantly meet men who insist on styling their look and habits on cultural icons. This in itself is not always a bad thing, but when followed to the extreme you begin to wonder who the person is.