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  1. #1
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    I Recovered From a Messy Breakup

    This breakup hit me hard when it happened, but Iíd like to share my story on the forums for people that feel low right now. Just remember, you arenít alone. Other people have experienced what you are experiencing. Things get better.

    So I had a crush on this girl when I was in my second year of university. The school year starts in September. We met in October. She had a boyfriend at the time but that didnít stop me from trying. There is always that one girl who you just put above all the rest. I really wanted her so I was persistent.

    We became friends and eventually exchanged numbers. We texted and started hanging out too. We even started drinking together. Things were going smoothly. She would even initiate conversations all on her own through texts. All of this was happening over the course of several months though, none of this was immediate. I first had to gain her trust.

    Things progressed and by March I was staying the night in her room and cuddling with her in bed. Things were escalating. One night we started making out. She still had a boyfriend at the time. A few days later she broke up with him and I was one happy fella.

    We didnít last long unfortunately. We broke up during the summer when it became a LDR. She called it off. It felt like we dated for longer because of how we got to know each other over the past few months. What made it worse is that when we both returned to university, she made out with one of my best friends. Things became terrible just like they immediately after she ended things.

    My friend apologized to me in person like a man. I forgave him as long as nothing else came from it. He promised this was the case. It wasnít though because later on I found out that he was going back to her room and staying the night. This crushed me. I lost my girlfriend and a best friend. To this day we are no longer friends and this happens 2 years ago.

    It took me a couple months but Iím as happy as ever now in a new relationship. Iím a very positive person. It mightíve helped that I was already pretty positive before I got into a relationship with her. Anyways though that is my story. How did I bounce back? Iíll admit seeing girls out and going home with them really boosts the confidence. This happened a few times. Whatever works eh?

    Does anybody else have any stories theyíd like to share? Iíd love to hear some.

    Cheers, brothers


  2. #2
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    that's awesome man, I'm glad you still have your groove. It sounds like the type of friend that I wouldn't want to have at all. I like to weed out friends like that early on so they can't do much damage to my life. It helps if you screen people before becoming there friend. LOL, I'm not trying to be all scientific but you deserve the best man and surrounding yourself with positive people and good friends will help you out a lot.


  3. #3
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    Thanks, brother. Yeah you're totally right. The problem was that I met him in university and he actually seemed like a genuine guy. He even helped me get the girl in the first place! It's shitty that some people are like that. Oh well. Definitely got the groove back


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