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  1. #1
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    did i over-neg here?

    Hi Guys,

    i met an HB10 at the airport a few days ago.
    We chatted a bit, and she was mildly interested. I ran the cube on her, and she went to very interested. Her horse was "ready to race" fwiw.

    We exchange numbers before her flight left, briefly discussing meeting up in spain where she works.

    She has gone quiet on me after sending some pretty hot photos and lots of innuendo. it dries up after 13/04/2017, 21:49:57.

    Did i over-neg? This looked pretty well set up initially. Comments? Suggestions? How can I get the show back on the road?

    heres our whatsapp dialogue (i initiated it shortly after we went our ways at the airport:


    12/04/2017, 21:36:42: me.too: be a good girl on the plane😉
    12/04/2017, 21:40:28: HB10: <‎image omitted> (sends an image of a turboprop captioned i hope i survive)
    12/04/2017, 21:42:41: me.too: you will😉
    12/04/2017, 21:45:50: HB10: Have a safe flight😊 See y in summer🌞🌞🌞

    13/04/2017, 10:51:23: me.too: 😉you forgot my good flight/good night kiss.
    13/04/2017, 13:17:14: HB10: Hey😊 you also survived, cool✌ was really funny yesterday, I already tried the test with one friend, she was also laughting😆 all good in Vienna?
    13/04/2017, 14:07:36: me.too: hey bad girl😀 all good, bit busy in the office, but im catching up
    13/04/2017, 14:08:59: me.too: im sure you two had some laughs. and spent 95% of the time discussing the horse😉
    13/04/2017, 14:45:16: HB10: Hehe, yeah😊 my day is relaxed, some shopping, coffee with friends, planning sauna in the afternoon😉 Normal bad girl's day😈😇 sending kiss for your better day😘
    13/04/2017, 15:37:38: me.too: 😉only one? should be at least 5 spectacular kisses for the delay
    13/04/2017, 15:39:19: me.too: if you knew what i did with the first one......😊😊😊
    13/04/2017, 15:40:41: HB10: Mmm, tell me what you did😉😈
    13/04/2017, 15:41:42: me.too: kisses first😀
    13/04/2017, 15:45:08: HB10: I am never doing what someone is telling me😉 tell me what I want to know first😘
    13/04/2017, 16:22:39: me.too: yoou are going to get spanked for being cheeky😉
    13/04/2017, 16:26:04: me.too: maybe i should leave it to your imagination😜
    13/04/2017, 16:44:18: HB10: Vrrr, but this is not a punishment for me😜
    13/04/2017, 17:22:18: me.too: 😀 i know. and you're being cheeky again😉
    13/04/2017, 17:23:26: me.too: i'm starting to worry about my hand😅😅😅
    13/04/2017, 19:02:44: HB10: <‎image omitted> (She sends full body shot from behind in a bikini, showing an exceptional ass)
    13/04/2017, 19:15:48: me.too: petra is that your bum?
    13/04/2017, 19:32:09: HB10: Yop
    13/04/2017, 19:37:33: me.too: 😉try turning around
    13/04/2017, 19:38:36: HB10: <‎image omitted> (She sends a pic of her lying o the rocks covering her boobs with her hands. Super hot again)
    13/04/2017, 20:05:43: me.too: nice rocks😀😀😀
    13/04/2017, 21:03:09: HB10: Yeah, Mallorca rocks😊 you have to come, will show you what is it about there😉😇😈
    13/04/2017, 21:36:11: me.too: are you sure you can handle me babe?
    13/04/2017, 21:38:44: HB10: And are you sure you can handle me?😈
    13/04/2017, 21:44:28: me.too: 😀cute
    13/04/2017, 21:45:31: HB10: Haha, you really think I am cute? You have no idea babe😘
    13/04/2017, 21:46:48: me.too: i meant your comment was cute
    13/04/2017, 21:46:54: HB10: I can come to Vienna on monday and you will see, what is cute on me and what is the reality😉
    13/04/2017, 21:47:35: me.too: what do you mean by that babe?
    13/04/2017, 21:48:34: me.too: i dont get the cute/reality part. or are you saying youre a monster?😳
    13/04/2017, 21:49:30: HB10: No, just bad girl😈😇
    13/04/2017, 21:49:57: me.too: that's not an issue. Nobody can be even half as bad as I am😉
    13/04/2017, 21:52:51: HB10: This is something...unbelievable... do you reall know all the people in the world, that you can say that? I don't think so... I think you are sweet😙
    13/04/2017, 21:56:01: me.too: thanks😀 i think youre starting to earn the pleasure. of a good spank
    13/04/2017, 22:05:57: HB10: Starting?😉 ok, time to say good night😊 without good night kiss...cause I'll decide, when is the time you can get one😴😘
    13/04/2017, 22:37:09: me.too: good night bane. im off too. sweet dreams😀😇


    14/04/2017, 12:55:11: me.too: babe

    15/04/2017, 09:28:14: me.too: 😀i had a dream about you list night.... (trying to reinitiate)
    15/04/2017, 09:57:49: HB10: Something wild?😈😇
    15/04/2017, 10:16:54: me.too: 😀we were riding zebras naked in the supermarket.
    15/04/2017, 10:18:07: me.too: 😉 what trouble is my little monster causing today?
    15/04/2017, 19:26:29: me.too: ... ill answer that myself. clearly lots of trouble😉 can you get your bum over in time for lunch on monday - what works for you?


  2. #2
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    ok, so she has made a short showing. im guessing i wasn't giving her enough back, so that's the reason for the pathetic kiss. (emoticon in the last line, going on to say im not sure she deserves the kiss...

    Guys, where from here?


    16/04/2017, 12:52:49: HB10: Ehm, hangover as f*ck, I guess monday doesn't match,I think I'll be dead till monday... Happy Easter✌
    16/04/2017, 12:55:23: me.too: �� so monday was an empty threat��
    16/04/2017, 12:56:37: me.too: happy easter to you too babe. im a bit wasted too. was out with the boys the last two nights, we had loads of fun.
    16/04/2017, 13:00:19: HB10: Hih,yeah,so we did the same, I was also out with the boys last two nights�� now on the way to hairdresser, I guess she will be really happy to see me like that������ write to y later��
    16/04/2017, 13:02:48: me.too: �� ... but im not sure you deserve it�� see u later

    Last edited by me.too; 04-16-2017 at 11:25 AM.

  3. #3
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    Quote Originally Posted by me.too View Post
    ok, so she has made a short showing. im guessing i wasn't giving her enough back, so that's the reason for the pathetic kiss. (emoticon in the last line, going on to say im not sure she deserves the kiss...

    Guys, where from here?


    16/04/2017, 12:52:49: HB10: Ehm, hangover as f*ck, I guess monday doesn't match,I think I'll be dead till monday... Happy Easter✌
    16/04/2017, 12:55:23: me.too: �� so monday was an empty threat��
    16/04/2017, 12:56:37: me.too: happy easter to you too babe. im a bit wasted too. was out with the boys the last two nights, we had loads of fun.
    16/04/2017, 13:00:19: HB10: Hih,yeah,so we did the same, I was also out with the boys last two nights�� now on the way to hairdresser, I guess she will be really happy to see me like that������ write to y later��
    16/04/2017, 13:02:48: me.too: �� ... but im not sure you deserve it�� see u later
    i dont know all the details here but you'll want to keep in mind, sometimes women just really enjoy the playful texting / banter....but they are happy to leave it at that and will flake out when it comes to actually meeting up....

    that is unless you are really offering them something of REAL value, a real reason to show up, something beyond just the prospect of hooking up which they can get without a problem

    Jamie
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    “As one advances, one does not accumulate but eliminate. The height of cultivation is really nothing special. It is merely simplicity; the ability to express the utmost with the minimum. The more complicated and restricted the method, the less opportunity for expression of one’s original sense of freedom. Though they play an important role in the early stage, the techniques should not be too mechanical, complex, or restrictive. It we cling blindly to them, we shall eventually become bound by their limitations.” - also....Mr. Bruce Lee

  4. #4
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    Quote Originally Posted by subzero View Post
    i dont know all the details here but you'll want to keep in mind, sometimes women just really enjoy the playful texting / banter....but they are happy to leave it at that and will flake out when it comes to actually meeting up....

    that is unless you are really offering them something of REAL value, a real reason to show up, something beyond just the prospect of hooking up which they can get without a problem
    Thanks Jamie.
    possibly i didn't get enough comfort/value going in the short time? what would you try at this point?

    tnx!


  5. #5
    I don't feel like you overnegged actually...minor amendment I probably would't have said "what do you mean by that", it kind of broke the flow of the chat . She has just said she is coming to Vienna , why shoot her down then?

    I would have thought something more like:
    "
    HB10: I can come to Vienna on monday and you will see, what is cute on me and what is the reality��
    13/04/2017, 21:47:35: me.too: I'm looking forward to it
    or

    HB10: I can come to Vienna on monday and you will see, what is cute on me and what is the reality��
    13/04/2017, 21:47:35: me.too: Lets go

    .

    Overall though nice conversation

    Also what was that zebra statement for? I can imagine she was a little bit like "what?" when you said that. One thing to be funny and different but there can also be too random.



    In terms of where to go now...maybe leave her 3/4 days , see if she re initiates. If she doesnt just pop up with a little short message and just play it by ear.

    Last edited by jazzy_ways2; 04-17-2017 at 06:12 PM.

  6. #6
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    hi Jazzy,

    yes - that comment was clearly not good. i was a bit freaked out by her wording.

    The Zebra/Dream was a reinitiation attempt. The Zebra was a preconceived answer. I mentioned a dream, and she answered with "wild stuff?" I probably should have ngged her for being sexual again.... Or taken it further by responding with "even wilder" or " "the things i would do to you."

    What irritates me, is that she seemed pretty well invested on day one, and it slows down towards the end of that day. You've already identified my blunder no 1, im not sure shes getting a bit annoyed when she says :
    "This is something...unbelievable... do you reall know all the people in the world, that you can say that?"
    Thats where i started thinking i should slow down the negging a bit.

    Anyway, this has backfired a bit. I get the feeling i'm lacking connection due to the hurried airport thing...

    Any ideas for a smart re-init? need to get back to the energy level on day 1.

    or should i mention something about the cube we didnt disuss, as an excuse to get her on the phone? along these lines:
    me: hey - your cube was green. didnt get around to discussing that;-)
    her: wha does it mean
    me: too much for here... let's talk later. i'll call you aroud 8 - does that work?


    grr. becoming outcome dependent... but she's too exceptional.

    any ideas appreciated.

    tnx.


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