so a friend of mine introduced me to her friend Jen. Jen was excited to meet me, once we met we hungout for two days. we texted pretty consistently for about three weeks in which at that time I asked her to go out on a dinner date. she then tells me that shes not looking for anything more than just friends because she "has too much drama in her life and doesn't want to drag anyone else into it." now my friend told me that Jen was really into me when we met and talked she gave the impression that she wanted to see where things go with us, so why the change of attitude? im not just looking to sleep with her, im looking for a long term relationship. is there any way to salvage this????